https://father4e.com/posts/Recent content in Posts on Father for everHugo -- gohugo.ioen-usTue, 16 Apr 2024 10:02:14 +0200https://father4e.com/posts/where-is-your-heart-at/Tue, 16 Apr 2024 10:02:14 +0200https://father4e.com/posts/where-is-your-heart-at/We all wish to have happy heartful kids.https://father4e.com/posts/how-would-you-like-to-be-remembered-after-death/Mon, 08 Apr 2024 00:23:54 +0200https://father4e.com/posts/how-would-you-like-to-be-remembered-after-death/How would you like to be remembered after death?https://father4e.com/posts/hello-world/Wed, 03 Apr 2024 20:05:33 +0200https://father4e.com/posts/hello-world/After many years (6) to be precise I am coming back to write my thougts and everything I’ve (am) learning as a father/husband/man. See you soon.https://father4e.com/posts/gratitude/Wed, 21 Nov 2018 19:22:46 +0100https://father4e.com/posts/gratitude/What makes a life happy place? What’s the point of doing daily things all over again? I made a promise to myself I will acknowledge when I have a bad day. Easy job one would say. The problem is that as a man nine out of ten times I don’t know I am already having a bad day. But I know when I am angry on fellow car commuters that are ignoring me on the road - me being a cyclist.https://father4e.com/posts/daily-challenge-7-house-at-a-forest/Thu, 19 Jul 2018 09:02:46 +0200https://father4e.com/posts/daily-challenge-7-house-at-a-forest/I am writing this post from my current work desk as I should already written it last night. Yesterday was quite hot, about 31 C. With mom we made a plan to go to your grand pa’s house (your mom’s dad’s house). I took SA after work and mom took K. We met at our house and quickly switched cycles for our little car. And in 15 minutes or, so we arrived to house at a forest.https://father4e.com/posts/daily-challenge-6-names/Tue, 17 Jul 2018 13:43:32 +0200https://father4e.com/posts/daily-challenge-6-names/Lately I’ve been thinking a lot about names in particular why and how we decided to name you like you are. OD: we named you after a very special saint and feelings we had with your mom after you came to this world. We were looking at you and just new what your name will be. Unfortunately I can’t say much about your name yet but for starters I will assign you a proper initials in this little blog.https://father4e.com/posts/daily-challenge-5-sunday/Mon, 16 Jul 2018 12:45:24 +0200https://father4e.com/posts/daily-challenge-5-sunday/Good thing about this daily challenge I’m doing is that I am thinking each day what will I do with you two. I have to prepare myself in advance that everything works smoothly as possible so we can enjoy our time together. This morning we stayed inside and played in kid’s room. Well mostly we learnt the alphabet. OD you are making a slow but steady progress with letters. The biggest challenge for you is to figure out what is the first letter in a spoken word.https://father4e.com/posts/daily-challenge-4-saturday/Sun, 15 Jul 2018 20:25:53 +0200https://father4e.com/posts/daily-challenge-4-saturday/Ah weekends. Days when daddy takes both of you on a new adventures while mommy can rest in the mornings. She takes overnight shifts when YD has bad nights, so we compromise that I take you both, and she can get some rest in the mornings. Today we went to the forest. Place of endless games and adventures. We began by packing our first kid aid which includes: bottle of water snacks 2 diapers and baby wipes for the youngest one And off we go to the not very steep hill deep in the forest.https://father4e.com/posts/daily-challenge-3-summer/Sat, 14 Jul 2018 21:09:59 +0200https://father4e.com/posts/daily-challenge-3-summer/Thanks to your mother, summer has also become one of my favorite times of the year. Whenever we have chance and temperature is above 28 C I set up a little swimming pool so you two can play together in the water with your favorite play toys. For me this is also one of the most relaxed time. I am in my deckchair only legs inside tiny swimming pool outside which gives you two outside an excellent excuse to water my legs with your toys.https://father4e.com/posts/daily-challenge-2-playing-together/Fri, 13 Jul 2018 21:29:31 +0200https://father4e.com/posts/daily-challenge-2-playing-together/YD: I am amazed how a baby your size can make so much poo. But then again you eat a lot and if something goes in it must also somehow go out. This morning you slept a bit longer which I think contributed to a very quite morning commute when you sat at the back of my bicycle. No words from you just looking quite at the peaceful traffic. When we got home you were so cheerfully playing in the sand almost as if we were still on a vacation enjoying sea and playing on the sand.https://father4e.com/posts/daily-challenge/Thu, 12 Jul 2018 13:47:11 +0200https://father4e.com/posts/daily-challenge/A few months ago I red about a daughter who said she wished she had more memories about her father, about family time and how she loved reading those few journal posts when he wrote it. Then I also found out, on some social media site, about a mother who writes each day a few lines to her daughters. Now I will try to write a few lines for one week and see how it goes.https://father4e.com/posts/how-our-mornings-look-like/Wed, 13 Sep 2017 21:30:23 +0200https://father4e.com/posts/how-our-mornings-look-like/We don’t need an alarm clocks whatsoever. Our daughters wakes us up. It was no point for me to have an alarm clock since youngest or oldest one woke me up usually couple of minutes earlier. As I am bitten by the night I keep snoozing till hour is 7:30 am. At that time I am in such a hurry that I use brush in one hand and use another hand for changing YD.https://father4e.com/posts/end-of-paternity-leave/Thu, 30 Mar 2017 09:57:33 +0200https://father4e.com/posts/end-of-paternity-leave/I am back at work, and paternity leave ended for me. This is a little recap of what was going on and what I found out during my paternity leave. At the beginning it was fun. Being with the YD and just carry her around in my arms and forget about was work was me connecting with the little one. At least I thought I am connecting with her. As it turned out she wasn’t connecting with me but she just needed to be either changed because of the wet diapers or she needed me to help her with blurps.https://father4e.com/posts/reminder-to-myself-when-i-wish-for-more-kids/Tue, 21 Mar 2017 13:40:38 +0100https://father4e.com/posts/reminder-to-myself-when-i-wish-for-more-kids/Don't do ithttps://father4e.com/posts/why-paternity-leave-matters/Mon, 06 Mar 2017 10:34:49 +0100https://father4e.com/posts/why-paternity-leave-matters/To me it's crystal clear to take paternity leave when a newborn arrives. I take full advantage of it and I think every dad shouldhttps://father4e.com/posts/her-wather-just-broke/Sat, 25 Feb 2017 15:16:40 +0100https://father4e.com/posts/her-wather-just-broke/I was so proud of my firstborn when she said: “Daddy peepee”. Little confused I asked if she needs to peepee. She replied with more serious tone and visible in a hurry: “Daddy peepeee!!!” I ran to our bathroom to bring her pink potty because she can only hold for a few seconds. I put it on a changing table and then put daughter on it. She said even more louder to put her down on the floor.https://father4e.com/posts/preparation-class-for-birth/Tue, 31 Jan 2017 12:00:23 +0100https://father4e.com/posts/preparation-class-for-birth/This is the part where I laughed so hardhttps://father4e.com/posts/most-beautiful-cry-in-the-world/Sun, 15 Jan 2017 14:14:56 +0100https://father4e.com/posts/most-beautiful-cry-in-the-world/...is when you hear your child's voice for the very first timehttps://father4e.com/posts/when-is-the-right-time-to-acknowledge-your-father/Sat, 07 Jan 2017 22:42:06 +0100https://father4e.com/posts/when-is-the-right-time-to-acknowledge-your-father/I have so much to tell but nothing to say. Butterflies in my stomach when memories take me back, way back when I still remember how you taught me steer remote vehicle or how we together with brother and sister under the blanket waited for our mom to return home from a night shift